Some people said Marriage is a disaster and having child means doomsday. I strongly disagree with the statement. Fall in love is the most beautiful moment in life. Getting to know your partner is a learning process which you will found what others said as ups and downs. Marriage is a whole new chapter of lives. You not only bound to love someone but also commitment where you need to gives your pledge to be loyal, care for her for her lifetime and love her forever. Well, to me the key to a relationship is TRUST. Trust can not be given by saying that "I trust you" but party to a relationship need to earned it themselves from time to time. A relationship is a commitment by 2 person and required 2 people to work hard for a relationship to work out. Once my friend told me it is like playing game where every stage of the game you will face a challenge and after you passed the stage you earn a new stage and bonuses. Similarly, in relationship indeed we will face a lot of hurdles but it requires a lot of perseverance, thought, passion, determination, time and money to gained a stable relationship. At the same time, relationship do have a short-cut key or gamer term-"cheat" (ocos i'm not telling you to cheat on your partner or be disloyal) too and it is respect and always say 'sorry' eventhou you are not the wrong ones- gentleman will always give in :) Please don't hold grudge peeps! You'll only make it worst! We must respect to each other- if you want your other half to respect you of course you have to respect her first.
Ok enough with the theories! I am 25-year-old this year and I am married on this January. I met my dream girl at Hartamas Square, Kuala Lumpur from my friend 2 years ago. At first sight, I said to myself "this girl is awesome" but I bet she has a bf (wrongly guess)(sigh! lost opportunity). Then, last year during my University's Christmas break I came back to Malaysia and I stopped by at Kuala Lumpur to visit friends which long time i didn't meet and of course the local food! So, during my stop-by period at KL I stayed with my friend at his apartment where i met my dream girl again. She just got back from Taiwan and she is staying at my friend's place for a few days and there is how I got the opportunity to know her more and soon we get along. To cut the long story short, after I went back to UK we started to enter into a new stage of relationship (bf/gf). I said to her that she will be my first gf and last gf. Yes, we entered into a long-distance relationship and it was not easy for both of us because not as usual couple where they get to hold hands, cuddle, go out to watch movie and etc. What can we do just Skype and phone calls. My first month phone bill finally burst as expected by my housemate. Damn him! Subsequent months, we begun to relied more on Skype and think Skype is a ingenious form of communication ever created after Alexander Abraham Bell's invention.
To shorten my story, yes I married my wife in this January. She is the most beautiful bride I even seen in my entire lives and our wedding took place at 2 places-Kuantan and Miri because she is from Kuantan. After marriage, she gave birth to my beautiful baby girl, Autumn Esmerelda. I went into the labour room with my wife and cut the cord umbilical cord like some opening ceremony at big company or hotel. I was in tears of joy and believe me it is not easy for a lady to give birth for her partner because the process she needs to go through and the worst things is the pain. So, I really treasure her much and appreciate her. I always said to my wife no matter what my wife will always come first before my child.
Ok enough with the theories! I am 25-year-old this year and i am married on this January. I met my dream girl at Hartamas Square, Kuala Lumpur from my friend 2 years ago. At first sight, I said to myself "this girl is awesome" but i bet she has a bf. Then, last year during my University's Christmas break I came back to Malaysia and I stopped by at Kuala Lumpur to visit friends which long time i didn't meet and of course the local food! So, during my stop-by period at KL i stayed with my friend at his apartment where i met my dream girl again. She just got back from Taiwan and she is staying at my friend's place for a few days and there is how i got the opportunity to know her more and soon we get along. To cut the long story short, after i went back to UK we started to enter into a new stage of relationship (bf/gf). I said to her that she will be my first gf and last gf. Yes, we entered into a long-distance relationship and it was not easy for both of us because not as usual couple where they get to hold hands, cuddle, go out to watch movie and etc. What can we do just Skype and phone calls. My first month phone bill finally burst as expected by my housemate. Damn him! Subsequent months, we begun to relied more on Skype and think Skype is the best form of communication ever created after Alexander Abraham Bell's invention.
To shorten my story, yes I married my wife in this January. She is the most beautiful bride I even seen in my entire lives and our wedding took place at 2 places-Kuantan and Miri because she is from Kuantan. After marriage, she gave birth to my baby girl, Autumn Esmerelda. I went into the labour room with my wife and cut the cord umbilical cord like some opening ceremony at big company or hotel. I was in joys and believe me it is not easy for a lady to give birth for a man because the process she needs to go through and the worst things is the pain. So, I really treasure her much and appreciate her. I always said to my wife no matter what my wife will always come first before my child.
Now, we have settled down in KL and what I can tell u is that my wife is a great wife as she does most of the house chores and care of my child. Ocos I did helped her whenever I can. After all, Relationship is about helping and supporting each other too. I am still in a newly weds now and I don't think I am in the position to give advice on how to maintain a good marriage so I believed that relationship is between 2 people and both needs to work very hard to make this relationship last till forever. Alrite! tat's all my sharing. Good Luck peeps! :)
Happy Marriage to those had married, Happy Dating for those in a relationship and those still in single don't give up k! cos i am sure one day ur love will come and it's just a matter of time.
